Love & Relationships

My One-Year Marriage was a Zombie Rom-Com

+ book updates!

Nov 17 • Anayo and Jackie Bluu

Dating As A Fat Black Woman is Violent

Nov 10 • Anayo and Toni Wilson, M.S.W

How A Sex Toy Freed Me From Captain Hook 🪝

Turns out, the love of my life is rechargeable

Aug 4 • Anayo and tia marie

I Told My Straight Friend I Loved Her

TO FREEDOM from the friend zone!

Jun 9 • Anayo

I'm A 28-Year-Old Woman With No Dating Experience—Should I Be Stressed?

May 19 • Anayo and Tabby Kibugi

Three Strangers Walk Into A Party & I've Slept With All of Them

on reclaiming our pleasure as Black women

Mar 31 • Anayo

Why Black women are obsessed with Love Island

Dating as a Black woman on reality TV shows like Love Island, Love Is Blind, and The Bachelor is not for the weak.

Sep 2, 2024 • Anayo

40something and looking for "The One"

I am a fortysomething woman who attracts people for both her mind and beauty.

Apr 22, 2024 • Anayo

I fell back into a soul tie with one Whatsapp message

It be like that sometimes

Apr 8, 2024 • Anayo

Have you heard of "agape" love?

Real Christians know

Feb 26, 2024

Solo dates taught me how to be alone

How to go on solo dates as an extroverted Black woman

Feb 19, 2024 • Anayo

How Queer Women Celebrate Love In A Country That Hates Them

How do gay Nigerians celebrate Valentine's Day? Writer Vivian Oluchi explores how queer women in the country show love even when it's illegal.

Feb 12, 2024 • Anayo

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