Love & Relationships

Why Black women are obsessed with Love Island

Dating as a Black woman on reality TV shows like Love Island, Love Is Blind, and The Bachelor is not for the weak.

Sep 2 •

40something and looking for "The One"

I am a fortysomething woman who attracts people for both her mind and beauty.

Apr 22 •

I fell back into a soul tie with one Whatsapp message

It be like that sometimes

Apr 8 •

Have you heard of "agape" love?

Real Christians know

Feb 26

Solo dates taught me how to be alone

How to go on solo dates as an extroverted Black woman

Feb 19 •

How Queer Women Celebrate Love In A Country That Hates Them

How do gay Nigerians celebrate Valentine's Day? Writer Vivian Oluchi explores how queer women in the country show love even when it's illegal.

Feb 12 •

Swipe Right Into The Dark Side

And we're cancelling people TODAY!

Oct 9, 2023 •

On loving yourself while being someone's daughter

Happy Muva's Day

May 15, 2023 •

When you don’t have the emotional capacity for someone new

On AI and succumbing to familiarity

Mar 27, 2023 •

On craving romantic attention

Mar 13, 2023 •

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