THIS ---> ”...when we seek a connection, we seek the closest thing to comfort. Not necessarily trust, honesty, respect, and healthy communication, although that's what we expect to some degree.”

I resonate with this so much. I am just awakening to my pattern of choosing chaos as my comfort in past relationships. I can’t overstate the importance of self-introspection into our patterns.

Beautiful read ♥️

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Ajani, I'm glad you recognized and left those toxic relationships. Nothing good comes out of them. As women, we have the knack to blame ourselves for actions taken by these abusive beings. But it's equally joyful when we come to our senses.

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